Mondli Tshabalala

Mondli Tshabalala

My first day in a new school Grade 7 Edleen Primary, I met this other kid who was also new. His name Mondli, we seemed to get along quite good. We were paired in the same class and we formed a friendship. Mondli was a great guy, genuine guy, he was into hip-hop and he could Krump! That was so HUGE back then! Although new, his Krumping made him popular in the school. Plus he was from Tembisa so he was relatively known. No one fucked with Mondli because he won’t hesitate to fuck you up! Trust me, he wasn’t no bitch. He was a new kid but only on paper, everybody knew who he was. My ties were all new. I was in uncharted territory, one could even say a foreigner. Me and Mondli became good friends. I liked him, he was always so good to me and he was talented. He was my link to how the kids in a new territory operated. I learned early on that I shouldn’t be timid or these new kids would take advantage of me. People needed to know that I wasn’t no pussy and that I could hold my own. So early in the first term, I fucked up some kid named Kleinboy who tested my frame. It wasn’t my intention to beat up the kid but he initiated everything and worse there were eyes looking. If I back down, I am doomed forever! I had to get my hands dirty. I fucked him up, perfect. You see he didn’t know I had ties in Gomora and I could fight, he thought I was some cheeseboy – big mistake Kleinboy. Poor kid, after I fucked him up he was sent to the principal’s office for initiating the fight. My stock grew after that fight and no one fucked with me again. I was worthy of chilling with Mondli.

Mondli being a cool kid and all contemplated of purchasing a new bag in the second-term. He wanted a Kerimore. Truthfully speaking, I don’t even know the bag hence my spelling is so off. He told me the bag cost R1200, I was appalled. However he was deadly serious. On the day he was supposed to purchase the bag, he couldn’t find it so he settled and bought a “Red Mountain” bag. I didn’t know what it was but it was a cool bag. I didn’t care much about bags but that “Red Mountain” bag was awesome – period! He was one of the few people in school at the time who had a “Red Mountain” and his peers were envious. Still, he expressed his disappointment to me for not getting the Kerimore bag, I still didn’t know what a Kerimore was. Then one day, we saw a kid from Sir Pierre High School with a Kerimore bag and he pointed it to me. I was confused. It looked like his “Red Mountain” bag exactly! I am not even exegerating – they looked the same! The only difference was the branding. That interaction seemed to only compound Mondli’s disappointment. So after two weeks of purchasing that “Red Mountain” bag, he decided he wanted another bag. He told me that he saw this cool “Nike” bag that cost R900 and that he would buy it. I thought he was kidding but the next week he bought it. That’s not all, he gave me his “Red Mountain” bag! It was basically new! He had only used that “Red Mountain” bag for 2-3 weeks! I couldn’t believe it, I was grateful and I thanked him. Before the “Red Mountain” bag, I had this huge bag that had wheels – yes, unfortunately I was that kid. But now I had a “Red Mountain” bag. In just one move, Mondli elevated my status to a cool kid. I will always love Mondli for that! That guy’s love for me was genuine. I used that “Red Mountain” bag until the 9th grade in high school. True, I used it sparingly in High school but it lasted that long – for 3 years! Mondli and I attended the same High School, I still had my “Red Mountain” bag while his Nike bag was a dinosaur. In fact he couldn’t even remember it anymore.

Mondli’s last contribution in my life was Senzile. In the 8th grade, he saw her and lost his mind! His the guy I am talking about on the “Senzile” post. Now do you understand Senzile’s significance in my life? Senzile is linked to Mondli Tshabalala and hence she will forever be perfect. Mondli Tshabalala was the best! Thank you God, Universe for that wonderful interaction. I am eternally grateful.

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Modesty aside

Modesty aside

Modesty aside, I am the greatest of all time. Killing everything on site like a crime. Quieting haters with my skills like a mime. Dominating the poetry game with a rhyme. Cause I grind, sparks in air cause I fly, high like a satellite, observing you peasants like NASA, invading and spreading in your system like a cancer, the energy you be emitting be denser, I am the sun that lights up your universe, I here to bless ya. Modesty aside, there has never been somebody as good me, a genius with words and a stinger like a bee. Causing wounds that linger as if deep like the sea. My baseline is steep, two jumps in the air like Kratos and you still wouldn’t get the brief. There’s only one God of War and that’s me. Modesty aside, no one is on my level. Operating on different perspectives like a bevel. I am above like heaven stomping down on the devil. You wouldn’t be on my level even if you had tilts, blind to your endeavors cause I have tints, big and bouncy my girls tits, a showdown with me and you’d have to quit. Jealous down, I wear the crown, forget your measly town, my influence clothes the whole Atlas like a gown, your efforts to challenge me make me laugh like a clown. Modesty aside, I am invincible, a Content God, I am the greatest of all time.

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Possible Collaboration

Possible Collaboration

Good day

I would like to take the opportunity to thank you for granting me an audience. My name is Thabiso Shingwenyana and I am writing regarding a possible collaboration.

I believe some background information is in order. I am a content God. In 2021, I served as one of the leads in the Wisdoms chats show that aired every weekday on Facebook live and YouTube. It was a long-format show that ran for 30-40 minutes and we explored subjects such as Business, entrepreneurship, psychology, culture, positivity, philosophy and life. I have contributed to more than a 100 episodes.

I have released countless content on my Facebook in the form of essays and poetry highlighting my work. I am generally acknowledged as the best writer in the world and a storytelling God. In 2018, I completed work on my screenplay “Wet Dreams” – future box office success and recipients of multiple awards. I also released two EPs (music projects) to much acclaim on social media. Both EP’s were downloaded over a 100 times. Without ANY marketing and promotion on my side, the two EP’s have been played more than 200 times on SoundCloud. Fair, it is not 20 million streams but it’s 200 streams I got from out of NOWHERE! I didn’t share a link with anyone, it’s pure organic streams! I also run a blog and we release great content everyday.

Motivation
I am an open-minded creative who has produced a Screenplay and two self-published books in addition to my two EP’s and 100 episodes on Wisdoms chat. I am an entrepreneur whose goal is to shake up the world. I am so passionate about content and the act of creating beautiful and amazing things. Every thought is creative, I want to change the world! To create something that matters for millions of people around the world. My aim is to always be better and better. There is nothing I can’t do. I believe I am the best in the world. With assistance, expertise and the proper management I will create amazing things and change the world. That’s where you come in, I believe we can find common ground to collaborate effectively with each other. I want to learn and produce great content with the intent of being the best that I can be. I know I will be of great value to you.

I appreciate your time, thank you.

For blog, screenplay and 2 self-published books:
https://antakalipa.wordpress.com

Wisdoms chats Youtube:
https://m.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLDivBjG9F8aAnwdZkkUdPsDBZu0Imt0TT

Wisdoms Chat Facebook:
https://m.facebook.com/pg/wisdomschats/posts/?ref=page_internal&mt_nav=0

For my two EPs:
https://soundcloud.com/user-650581962?ref=clipboard

EPs on Youtube:
https://m.youtube.com/channel/UCrbltm4OK_2163p7hA7_Pww

Facebook profile: Essays, poems and scripts
https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100009768994686

Best regards
Thabiso Shingwenyana

Antakalipaa@gmail.com

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Mastermind Alliance III: Hustlers Manifesto

Mastermind Alliance III: Hustlers manifesto.

Hi Leigh,

Firstly I would like to thank you for the course and all your efforts in the mentorship circles. It was such a great experience and I loved every second of it. I learned so much, I grew so much and I got to talk business every Tuesdays. My Tuesdays were the best and I treasure the experience. Admittedly, selfishly, I never want to lose that. I think you are so knowledgeable and professional that I want you as a mentor. There’s so much I could learn from you and you understand the content landscape and business as a whole. Napoleon Hill talked about establishing a “Mastermind” with somebody, or an institution if you want to attain riches. A “Mastermind alliance” is an understanding or a partnership that two or more entities share to get a particular goal. My hope is to form one with you. I am a creative whose personality trait is one of openness, that entails that all of the value is within. I am the business and there’s nothing I can’t do.

I wish to thank you for your time.

Best regards
Antakalipa

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Dangers of social media

Dangers of social media.

The advent of social media has made life better in a lot of ways. We now have telepathic powers that stretch to different continents, we can share our lives with our loved ones via video and photos, we can connect and work remotely from anywhere in the world, we have powers our ancestors could only dream about, we have become God’s. But nothing exists without its negative, social media is also the reason depression in the west and everywhere else in the world is so rife. The incessant comparing of our lives has crippled our souls resulting in a lack of knowledge of ourselves. Social media has created a generation of simps, weak men whose purpose in the world is please women. To cater to their every whim and neglect themselves in the process. These men have no inner campus and get validation from the attention they receive from these women. Sites like OnlyFans perpetuate this simp culture as men are lured in with the promise of viewing explicit content for a premium. OnlyFans destroys men, it keeps them docile and primitive, leaving them with no ambition, strife and prospects. OnlyFans castrates men and turns them into shadows of themselves. We must be better brothers. We must strive to be men of high value. A man of high value chases his purpose and not women, instead women chase him. Understand: women always have more options in the dating market because generally they are the prey that’s pursued, social media has only amplified this fact as now a thousand brothers are chasing the same prey. Avoid sliding in the DM my brother. A man of high value flips the script and makes himself valuable so that women can flock to him. Never chase women, it’s a waste of your precious time – chase your purpose. In this post we will be discussing dirty tactics used by social media to keep men trapped.

  1. Simping – social media has given men the illusion that women are more valuable because of the likes they receive. We have learned to equate likes to value and character of a person. This is so misleading and has led to a generation of emasculated weak young men who seek validation from women. They are women pleasers and do anything and everything to get their attention. They give their souls, they give their hard earned money, they give their self-respect, they are manipulated, they are laughed at, they are used like second hand vehicles. No one respects these men because they lack and inner campus, they have no center of gravity to keep them grounded. If a woman can’t respect you, she can’t love you. My brother, never seek validation from women. Keep your own frame, be your own man. Abandon the inbox and work on yourself. Understand: You are like Gold and you are in limited supply, know your worth and let them fight to caveat you. Don’t be a simp!
  2. Glamorizes Drugs and Alcohol – social media makes anything cool, when we see that something is desired by the masses, it’s value goes up leading to a domino effect. The herd behavior of social media artificially inflates the perceived value of substances leading to overconsumption and abuse. Drugs and alcohol can hinder your progress towards becoming a man of high value. This is because drugs and alcohol have side effects that can affect your health, leading to a life of misery, addiction and potentially death. Unregulated and unchecked use of alcohol and drugs can trap you in a world of hell. Take care of yourself my brother and monitor the influences in your life. You are the influencer of your life, do not get swayed away by public opinion.
  3. Addiction – social media is designed to be addictive, from the algorithms that show you content that will get you to react, to the dopamine inducing likes on your Facebook and Instagram. The purpose of social media is to get you hooked and addicted so they can show you more ads. Hence the continuous scroll function ensuring you stay on the site and lose sense of time, the interface that is designed like a slot machine. Social media is meant to consume as much of your time as possible. This is a trap as it can hinder you from achieving self-actualization. You need to be able to control and manage your time my brother. Plan out your day and allot activities to your schedule that will enhance the state of your being. Make time for reading as it will nourish your mind and keep you in peak performance. Make time for exercise as true wealth is health and keep a healthy social life. Your friends and family are paramount to living a good and fulfilled life.
  4. Reputation – so much of your life depends on reputation and it only takes a well co-ordinated smear campaign to ruin it. Because social media is a network of people, it only takes one share to ruin your life. It doesn’t even have to be true as all truths are half truths. One slander can be known from the depths of every corner in a second. One slander can define you and trap you in hell. Understand: not everyone is your friend despite what Facebook says, some people want to take you down, be mindful when you are flirting with the devil. In a world of fake news and click baits, everything is the truth.
  5. Fraud and scams – opportunities are located everywhere in the stratosphere of social media which makes it a breeding ground for fraud and scams. If you are naive and gullible, you will be taken for everything you have. Social media is an ocean filled with scams, false personas and fraudulent activities, from Crypto currently experts to Nigerian prince’s who urgency need you to deposit money in their accounts, to expert catfishers like the Tinder Swinder. You are operating on the dark side of human nature when you are on social media. Be careful my brother, thoroughly research every opportunity that comes your way. Do not part with money you don’t have and if it sounds too good to be true, it usually is. Beware of false prophets and saviors, the brutal truth about life is that you are alone, no one really cares about you and no one is coming out to save you. This should be your default, empower yourself and create the reality that you want to see.

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Superman

Superman

Navigating the world can be challenging as we are always bombarded by messages informing us on who we should be. We are indoctrinated into other people’s viewpoints, we are influenced by advertising, we are told what is acceptable by the culture, we are expendable like pawns in a chess game. It’s easy to fall into the trap of victimhood because modern life is so fast paced and everything is always in motion, sometimes it’s like life is happening to you. It’s easy to get nihilistic and feel yourself as a spectator and not a collaborator. The movie Fight Club released in 1999 was ahead of its time in portraying the masculinity crisis in the 21st century. Being swept up by novelty and consumerism we lose the anchor that keeps us grounded in reality. We let things outside of ourselves defines us. Negativity plagues our lives. We lose the ability to make decisions for ourselves, we become victims, we become weak, we lose our masculine frames. 20th century German philosopher Friedrich Nietzsche covered this on his masterpiece book “Thus Spoke Zarathustra” with his work on the “Ubermench” or “Overman” which directly translates to The Superman. He states that man should be bigger than his circumstances and aspire to be the very best that he can be. The “Ubermench” or Superman is better than passive, he is masculine and strong, he doesn’t make excuses, he is a leader of his life and is not a victim of any circumstance. The “Ubermench” is accountable and responsible for his own life. He is a man of purpose, he is in control of his destiny. The “Ubermench” makes his own decisions pertaining to his life. He has a masculine frame that is unyielding. A masculine frame is everything in the context of navigating reality and achieving any level of success. In this post we will be exploring how to breakout of the victims mentality so you can self-actualize and be the best that you can be.

  1. Look inward and diagnose – Realize that everything is what you make it. Your life currently is the result of your past decisions and thoughts. Thoughts are the language of the mind. Have good thoughts. Look at your habits and catch yourself in the act of negative self-talk. Journal your thoughts to make sense of what is in your mind. This will help you reflect and understand your state of mind much better. Troubleshoot your mind in the same way you would to your computer. When your computer is slow and certain programs are crashing, you troubleshoot it to understand the problem and fix it. Without the troubleshooting you run the risk of causing irrevocable damage to the operating system. Your mind is your operating system, your thoughts are the language of your system, have good thoughts to have a good life.
  2. Eliminate negativity – Stear away from negative people or situations that enable you to react in morally unjustified behaviors. Take responsibility for your life and your decisions. Understand that we are judged by the company we keep, birds of the same feathers flock together. Look at the people in your life. Eliminate negative people in your life. You can’t get far with negative friends who look down on you and take you for granted. As a man you need to be around people who help you get better. People who will feul your ambitions and move with you to the top. You need to be around men with value and accountability, men who inspire you and lift you up. You need to be around winners and conquerers, that is the only way to be a winner and a conquerer. Winners are enthusiastic about life, they are passionate and they are positive. Losers on the other hand have a victims mentality, a energy that calibrates at a low energy level and they never achieve anything of significance. Eliminate negativity and be with people who want the best for you.
  3. Practice gratitude – Gratitude is the act of magnifying what you have. It is positive energy that radiates. It teaches you to be thankful for what you do have. It’s insistence is on abundance instead of lack. With gratitude you have everything you need, you feel lighter on your feet, you are encouraged and confident about God’s love and grace. Gratitude is what gets you to have a truthful life. It purifies the soul and makes you an overall great human being with the magnetic power of a magnate. Without gratitude for life, a man is in danger of having nihilistic thoughts and resorting to instant gratification that numbs the pain as a means of escapism.
  4. Go after your purpose – Go after your dreams, this will teach you to be a person of character. It teaches you to be accountable for your destiny. No excuses, you fight for your dreams with everything you have. You take the disappointments, learn the lessons and commit to doing better the next time. The act of going for your dreams and following your purpose will give you confidence and greater self-esteem. Apathy will cease to exist and you will be in charge of your life. You will be a man of high value and everything will flock to you. A man without a purpose will always be a victim of life.
  5. Help others – Take your attention off yourself and concentrate that energy on somebody else or an organization. Offer your time to a worthwhile course like a homeless shelter. Give what you can. Donate what you don’t need anymore to someone who does, things like old clothes, blankets and toys go a long way. It will make you feel good and will give you control and power, alienating the feelings of unworthiness and victimhood. Helping others makes us feel important as our contributions are noted and appreciated. Great men are the change that they want to see in the world, they contribute more than they consume and they offer a hand because it helps the world move forward.
  6. Meditation – Add meditation to your schedule. Mindfulness meditation helps with observing our thoughts and quieting down the internal monologue. Realize that you are not your thoughts and you can distance yourself from them and watch them go by. Thoughts are just spontaneous things that happen and you don’t have to identify with them. Meditation helps with emotional mastery as you will be able to regulate your emotions and resist the urge to lash out at people. This is important because we live in a world that is survival based dictated by the fight-or-flight organ the amygdala, and as such the skill to be able regulate and perceive other people’s emotions is priceless. A high value man is one with impeccable Emotional Intelligence. You get high emotional intelligence by being emphatic. Empathy is the ability to put yourself in other persons shoes. Meditation helps with caltivating empathy skills because you can slow things down and be reflective. A man who can’t control his emotions is deemed to be impulsive with no self control, a big turn-off for the opposite sex and other men will not respect you. Meditation helps you recognize negative self-talk so you can fix it and be better.

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5 signs of a friend

5 signs of a friend

  1. A true friend is someone who is emphatic and assists at times of distress. Navigating the world can be stressful and we all need a crutch to help us. The pressures of life can be unbearable at times and having a sympathic ear helps. Someone who loves us and cares about us and our well-being. Someone to run to when we need advice, a shoulder to cry on who will not judge but listen attentively to what we have to say and also advice us on our shortcomings. If you have that in your resevior then good news, you have a good friend!
  2. A true friend is someone who has a growth mentality. A true friend is someone who wants the best for you. Someone who wants you to win! It is not someone who wants to see you regress to the mean. A true friend wants you to soar high above the sky with eagles and the stars. A true friend understands that if you do well, then all of humanity benefits. A true friend can even be your coach, showing you the best technique for you to kick that ball. Are your soccer boots strapped?
  3. A true friend is not a gossip. Gossips usually lack self-awareness and project their insecurities and inadequacies onto other people. They only care about themselves and no one else. A true friend on the other hand will never let anybody talk Ill of you in their presence, they will defend you to their last breath. A true friend talks positively about you and shines your light. Ever hear good things about you through the grapevine?
  4. A true friend doesn’t change because the love is organic and has compounded over the years like a stock portfolio. The love is rich and you feel wealthy when you are together. The love serves as a permanent persona that you can always rely on. Like Woody and Buzz lighter, “You got a friend in me”. If that tune is familiar then you definitely have a good friend.
  5. A true friend helps you crystallize your thoughts so they are at least clear to you. You cannot be afraid of telling your friend how you feel or your good news. If your friend doesn’t know anything real about you, then I have bad news, they are not a friend. A true friendship has intimacy and secrets based on reciprocity.

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Why you need to be more masculine

Why you need to be more masculine.

A masculine frame is needed to accomplish your goals and attain success. This is because a masculine frame is active and progressive. It seeks to create order in a world that is overwhelmed by chaos. To be more masculine is to live the life of the hero, to take charge and take life by the horns. Imagine if James Bond were dull, larthagic and insipid. What makes James Bond so successful with the ladies and career is control and self-regulation.

Here are 5 reasons you need to be more masculine.

  1. It enables you to be a person of value – Because you are always working on your purpose, you encounter phenomena that strengthens your character, values and conduct. Going up against the world everyday, you improve and learn something new about yourself. You gain confidence in your abilities and skills and that leads to success socially and professionally.
  2. Emotional Intelligence – Having a masculine frame means you are in control of yourself and emotions. You can perceive and regulate other people’s emotions and nothing can affect your center of gravity. This means you are grounded in your decisions and people can rely on you to lead.
  3. Confidence – You get confidence by interacting with the world. By trying out different things and maybe failing. That teaches you to get up and try again with different tools and a new approach. It teaches you to trust yourself more often, that results in greater self-esteem and confidence.
  4. More charisma – Charisma is to project power, presence and warmth. Because you are a person of value working on your purpose and are in control of your emotions, there is a assurity about you. There is a swagger in your walk. You emanate self-worth and self-knowledge, you are regal and immensely magnetic. The world gravitates towards you leading to untold power and influence.
  5. Success – Being more masculine will lead to a life of success because you are deliberate in your actions. You have goals and are aggressive in the pursuit of them. You are ruled by the unconscious force of winning and getting ahead. You are ambitious, driven, motivated and success is a given.

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Winning

Winning

It’s the same process,
winning is a state of being!

We never stop,
we keep going,
we keep pushing,
we keep delivering.

It’s the same thing everyday,
it’s effortless.
I am the greatest of all time.

No excuses,
if you need me,
you’ll find me at the top of the mountain.

I am on God mode,
Acknowledge Me!

I am only going to get better and better,
Winning is what I do best.

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