Month: July 2022

Masculine woman

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Masculine woman (man repellent)

I don’t need a masculine woman. Life is already difficult enough, nah, it’s not worth it. You know, the type of woman who be saying “Feminism this, feminism that, patriarchy this, patriarchy that, 50/50 that, 50/50 this”. Fuck that shit, there’s no such thing as 50/50! We can work together but be my partner and not my boss. If you think you can do it alone then do it! You asking me out on a date? Hahaha, crazy bitch. What’s next? You gonna open the door for me? You modern women are crazy. Relax I am the man, let me do what I need to do. I will provide. I don’t need a masculine woman hiding under the guise of being ambitious and independent. Wear your blazers and pants out there, in here I expect floral dresses and skirts. How can two pants preside over a household? Go be CEO over there! I don’t need a masculine woman dominating me like a sex slave. “Do it like this, don’t do that”, No! I am not doing anything, you won’t be emasculating me. Don’t think you know, just listen, I don’t need your “straight talk” or “direct speech”, Miss “I tell it like it is”, you’re so full of it. Relax, I will solve the problem myself, all I need is for you to be emphatic and actually care. I don’t need a masculine woman, nah, put on some make-up, put on some perfume, wear heels, do your nails, get your hair done, wear that red number, be seductive, stimulate my imagination, exude the aura of a mthyical creature, give me the opportunity to busk in your glory – God’s magnificent creation, you. I am not asking you to lead anything, that’s my job. You crazy if you think I am going to let you boss me around.

I don’t need a masculine woman. Life is already difficult enough, nah, it’s not worth it.

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Materialistic girl

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Materialistic girl.

A materialistic girl is useless for me. You gotta have a vision, to aim at something worthwhile. Pussy can’t be your only hustle, steward your army and protect your castle. A fat ass isn’t much, you gotta have a brain too. A symmetrical face wrinkles and your tricks falter as you push 30. There’s nothing a materialistic girl can do for me, I am building skyscrapers that reach the heavens, a stupid bitch will only limit me. Fabricated personas and Louis Vuitton bags are a way to distort reality, while the truth has a crystal clear lens operating to magnify your destiny. A materialistic girl is useless for me, I don’t need to know what’s trending or your latest cult heroes. How can you have expensive tastes with somebody else’s money? What are your dreams? What can you do? 6 inche heels are for when you need to slay a professional encounter and expensive champagne for crushing your goals. Daddy’s spoiled little girl is a No for me, I am not wasting my time with an entitled brat. Life is already difficult enough and nothing comes easy. You have to work hard for everything you have got. A materialistic girl can only make my dick soft. A materialistic girl is useless for me, you gotta be self-aware, emphatic, kind, prize self-development and be a person of value. What can you do for yourself? How can you empower yourself? Get your own diamonds and red bottoms. The Era of stupid bitches with zero accountability is up. Make your own way, do your thing, work hard, build, be patient and make your paper, everything else is secondary.

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We are what we think about.

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We are what we think about

From as early as primary school we are taught that life is energy and reality consists of matter. This matter exists in different states namely; solid, gas and liquid. We are taught that this matter is always vibrating. This is correct, however we are not taught that this energy and matter is governed by a paradigm. A paradigm is a level, like how a video game has different levels – level 1 being the easiest and level 9 being the boss for example. I want to extend this example and use a ladder that will serve as a visual aid for your mind. To get to the next level of the game you have to outwit and complete the current level or in the case of the ladder step-up to the next level.

When you are in level 1, you battle all the things in that level, that is your current paradigm. When you proceed to level 2, you attract things in that slightly more difficult level, this is now your current paradigm. Fundamentally this is what life is – different levels. You are energy and you are always vibrating in a certain paradigm or level. The paradigm that you are in is dictated by the quality of your thoughts. If your thoughts are angry and resentful, you operate in a negative paradigm and you will attract negative things to you. If your thoughts are positive, you will attract positive things. There can be no other way, this is casuality and nothing escapes this law.

If you want to be a Billionaire, you need to assume the thoughts, routines and habits of a Billionaire. To be a Billionaire you need to inhabit the paradigm of Billionaires. In other words if you want to be a Billionaire, act like one. You have to be a Billionaire first in your mind before it can translate onto the objective world. All is mind. We are what we think about most of the time. This is the essence of the law of attraction, we attract the things we think about with feeling. You don’t even have to know how these things come, they just come because everything is energy and your energy is attracting what you desire in your life. Artists are a perfect example of this, they paint what they see in their minds to a canvas that validates their vision. Through that they create something real, something the objective world can enjoy. The art is an expression of who they are.

Are you in the paradigm of your dreams? We are what we think about.

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Attitude

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Attitude

Attitude is so important because it defines destiny, it is destiny itself. This is because attitude is a mindset, it is your habits, it is your thought patterns – attitude is a state of being. There is no such thing as the future or even the past. These are just words that attempt to explain what is and what is, is the eternal present. We are always living in the NOW – there is only the eternal now! You cannot be successful in the future, you have to be successful now. You need to adopt the right habits now and emulate your heroes now. The Universe will catch up and manifest your actions and thoughts. You are not successful one day, you are successful every day. You show up every day and engage in routines that enable you to be successful. You have to be consistent, consistency is all that counts. You adapt and recreate yourself everyday, anything that isn’t growing is dying.

To have the right attitude means you constantly go at it. You improve everyday and discard what isn’t making you grow as an individual. Don’t be afraid to let go of what isn’t working out. Kiss goodbye to anything and everything that serves no utility in your life. Life is too short and change is the only constant. Let go, God has better things for you.

Have the right attitude, never take anything for granted. Show-up everyday, have enthusiasm, strive to be the best and win!

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How commited are you? (Care)

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How committed are you? (Care)

Essentially all that commitment is, is managing your sacrifices. I believe anything is possible provided you manage your sacrifices, everything worthwhile in life has a sacrifice. If for example you want to be the greatest tennis player of all time like Serena Williams, you have to engage in 4 hours or more of deliberate practice everyday. You must do it daily, no excuses, no second chances, just do it! That is your sacrifice to be the greatest. This means no more late night braais with friends. In fact, from now on you have no more friends, only people who will help you reach the pinnacle. You also can’t be like everybody else. Being like everyone else will only bring you mediocre results and you are not that anymore – you are a winner! You must be with the best people by your side. People who want the best for you. People who will motivate you to being the best that you can be. That’s your sacrifice. Do it, no excuses, no second chances!

To stay committed you must engage in something you truly care about. Care enough, that’s literally everything! When you care about something deep enough, you won’t quit when the dark nights besiege. Without care you won’t stay committed to anything. You will fail especially in the area of business. Being an entrepreneur is not easy. The odds are ALWAYS heavily stacked up against you and the business climate is always changing. You have competitors who are always actively working to put you out of business. Being an entrepreneur is actively choosing the role of the underdog. Nothing is promised, nothing is certain and you can labor for 10 straight years and receive nothing for your efforts. By choosing to be an entrepreneur, you are choosing to fail somewhere along the way. Failure is inevitable, there is no escaping this fact – every successful entrepreneur failed multiple times.

Edison failed over a thousand times with the light bulb but because he care enough, he kept on going. He managed his sacrifices and kept focusing on the light bulb. No excuses! That was his sacrifice. He did it and the world is much better today because he cared enough and stayed committed.

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Tell the truth or at least don’t lie

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Tell the truth or at least don’t lie!

We are not linear creatures and our behaviors constantly change depending on the people we meet. We create personas and present them as masks so we can be well perceived and liked. Basically we are all actors and we need to play our roles because if we don’t isolation is a big possibility and that’s not good because we need others to navigate reality. We are social creatures and this is a evolutionary trait. We also tell these “white lies” everyday like “How you doing?”, “I am good thanks”. We can’t say “Horrible, I hate my life and I want to die” because we learned that, that response will isolate us from people. We want to be well-liked. This is a big psychological urge hence the success of social media. Abraham Maslow explores this on his pyramid of needs.

Deception is everywhere in nature, predators hide in the long grass to get to their preys and infants learn to fake a cry to get the attention of their caregivers. Deception is an inherent part of nature. Everyone is a liar, there is no exception to this.

Still, I say if you are conscious about it. Tell the truth or at least don’t lie. Consciously lying is bad, it’s a sin and it leads to hell. Plus, every human being can unconsciously detect bullshit. We can feel it, no proof is required. If you are caught in your lie, it reduces respect and things will never be the same again. This is because trust is a very delicate thing. Trust is like a paper, once crumbled the creases will always be there. It also decreases your worth and tanishes your image, no one wants to be with someone they don’t trust. That leads to paranoia and a life of hell.

Always tell the truth or at least don’t lie. Be a person of integrity and good values. This creates order and you won’t have to remember your lies. This is attract genuine people to you and you’ll be happier.

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Love Yourself

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Love Yourself

What difference can you make in this world plagued by bad morality, injustices and blatant mass conditioning? My answer? Don’t stress about things you can’t control, leave things to God and the Universe and live your life as best as you can.

The biggest things you can do are for yourself, take care of yourself, love yourself unconditionally. You are God’s magnificent creation, treat yourself like someone who matters, you are royalty, the sun shines when you smile. Make yourself a priority first, you can’t be fixing other people’s problems when your house is not in perfect order. Be kind to yourself but also have high standards. Forgive yourself for past mistakes, life goes on, try to do better next time. Radiate with pride and self-worth. Love yourself and guard your thoughts. They are life-energy, they are how you perceive reality. Have good thoughts about yourself and it will have a rippling effect on the outside world. Stay away from angry people and negative vibes. Those people lack self-awareness and sometimes their actions are committed to spite.

Cleanse your spirit, have some “me time”. Take a walk in nature, go on holiday, buy that shoe, do something nice for yourself. You deserve it. You are worthy. You are important, you matter. Love yourself, avoid things that make you drift. Avoid actions that lead to you betraying your values. Guard your heart. Remember to smile. Be with people who want the best for you. Love yourself, take care of yourself – the world will follow.

You can’t fix politics, there will always be power games, greed and exploitation. You can’t change human nature. You can’t change anything about the world. Let it go, just take care of yourself and your loved ones.

Love yourself.

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Worldwide sustainable change – LOVE

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Worldwide sustainable change – LOVE

Love is not Imposing your will.
Love is not proud, arrogant and selfish.

Love is patient, kind, tolerant and emphatic.
Love is not limited,
Love can be generated as we need it.
Love is in abundant supply.

Love is seeing someone as God intended.
Love has no hierarchies and systems.
Love just is.

Love is timeless,
Love is immortal, eternal.

Love is to help,
Love is to let go,
Love is individuality.

Love heals,
Love purifies the soul.

Love is God,
Love unites.

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Rivers (Bruce Lee’s Wisdom)

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Rivers (Bruce Lee’s wisdom)

There are a lot of lessons to be learned from rivers. They are neutral, they flow. Rivers stream in one direction. A river is not forceful, it does not impose its will on the fish and other lifeforms in its ecosystem. A river is just nature. It is an expression of the Universe. It is not envious of the ocean for having more depth, other lifeforms and water. It is just content with just being the river. I liken rivers to Zen & Taoism. Taoism teaches the action of non-doing. Taoism teaches the importance of not forcing anything. It teaches to yield and be soft. It teaches how to be at peace with yourself. It teaches self-knowledge, it teaches how to be adaptable. This is important because as human beings, we have the proclivity to control and impose ourselves on things outside of ourselves. This is counterproductive and makes people defensive. The action of wanting to control people makes them contemptuous. It’s better to just flow. It’s better to just steer.

Bruce Lee also had a thing about water.

He states; “Don’t get set into one form, adapt and build your own, and let it grow, be like water. Empty your mind, be formless, shapeless like water. Be like water making its way through cracks. Do not be assertive, but adjust to the object and shall find a way around or through it. If nothing within you stays rigid, outward things will disclose themselves. If you put water into a cup, it becomes the cup. You put water into a bottle and it becomes the bottle. You put it in a teapot, it becomes the teapot. Now, water can flow or it can crash. Be water, my friend.”

Never fight reality, never wish things were better, never wallow or feel sorry for yourself, don’t waste time – improvise, adapt and overcome! Be like water my friend.

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Perseverance

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Perseverance

Perseverance is the ability to go through hell and make it to the other side. Perseverance is to keep going no matter what. It is the skill most necessary for success. This is because to succeed you need to be able to complete tasks. You need to be recurring and consistent. You need to be able to pick your battles and engage in those you are certain to win. Because we are aiming creatures and we are always aiming at what is better, perseverance helps us stay engaged with the goal we are aiming at. Perseverance is the process of the goal, it is what you do presently, it is being itself. Charles Darwin made the term “survival of the fittest” popular and it is exactly what perseverance is because you are always fighting metaphorically to survive in this jungle called earth. Death is always at the corner and Mothernature is always plotting – you persevere everyday, you are lucky to be alive with each day, the present is really a gift. To persevere is to have a long-term plan and see it through. To give everything to the process even though you might not be successful. Those who persevere force success. To persevere is to have a “why” and see it through no matter what.

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